If you could have dinner with one person, alive or dead, who would it be and why?
Either Ava DuVernay or Issa Rae. Either one of those. They are the most powerful black female storytellers. I would love to have dinner with them and absorb their energy, their wisdom, their experience and just their fun, authentic selves. I want to learn so much from them. What's their favorite food? What's their favorite color? What do they do in their downtime? How do they do self-care? Their stories have transformed how we watch film and TV. They are breaking through the barriers. I want to continue to break through the barriers just like them.
What are the top two social media sites you use on a regular basis?
I would say primarily LinkedIn, although I'm not really active on social media. I rarely am on because of my mental health and anxiety. I have a high-function anxiety. But LinkedIn is my primary one because I see the community, the industry; they share their work, I share my work. I see more truth coming up with our well-being and the culture; how we can promote ourselves and be vulnerable about what we value. I love that. Instagram is the second one. I have Instagram but I rarely use it. I need to eventually get back to it.
What’s currently on your bedside reading list?
The book I literally just finished is a life-changing book called “What Happened to You?: Conversations on Trauma, Resilience and Healing” by Dr. Bruce D. Perry and Oprah Winfrey. This book focuses on healing trauma and how our body responds and operates when we shut down, when we’re triggered. So, understanding our brain functionality and that, when we shut down, we don’t receive information because our frontal cortex is blocked. It really helped me to understand my well-being, my mental health and other people’s, as well. That also helped me in the work that I’m doing or [in] engaging with people. So, how can I be more mindful of that and still be engaging with a person when they shut down?
What was the last show you binge-watched?
“Sex and the City” [the reboot] “And Just Like That ...”. It’s my guilty pleasure.
At what age do you hope to retire?
In my 40s. I don’t want to wait until I’m 60 or 70. I want to do more giving back. I’ll always continue the work. I’ll find time to teach, or volunteer, or serve on a board; make some kind of influential change.