A woman masturbates, couples have 'ok' sex in Durex ad addressing the 'uncomfortable truth' about lube

New work from Havas follows 2020's 'moist' ad

Published On
May 04, 2021

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Durex and agency Havas London have been hard at work trying to destigmatize the conversation around sexual discomfort for some time now in their ads for lube. The brand did so playfully with 2020's spot examining the word "moist" and now it's back with another spot that aims to "tell the uncomfortable truth" about sex.

Like the previous spot, it's delighfully frank, jaunty and comedic, with plenty of "Fleabag"-style fourth wall breaking, as well as a hilarious moment with a woman talking to her cat after masturbating ("All women can get naturally dry days," she says). There are also a few seeming nods to the pandemic—a couple has sex in a tent (presumably because they're not allowed to meet up indoors) and another pair find a laptop on the bed to be something of a passion-killer. Alicia MacDonald directed the film via Missing Link.

The point is to take on unrealistic portrayals of sex and challenge women to be a little more honest about their sex life. The campaign also includes a series of digital, social and out-of-home executions shining a light on these common misconceptions. They feature lines such as "all women can get naturally drier," "sometimes sex can feel a bit ‘meh’ (help feel mmm with lube)" and "sex with condoms can feel a bit oof’." Running across the U.K. and Europe, the campaign will also span PR activation and influencer partnerships later this year.

“Believe it or not, lube ain’t just for menopausal women and those who enjoy the kinkier side of life. But it’s societal norms and misunderstandings like this that hold people with vaginas back from having the sex they deserve–which is why this campaign is so important," said Vicki Maguire, Chief Creative Officer at Havas London, in a statement. "With this campaign, what I love most is that we’ve created something honest and empowering, that loudly and proudly puts the female sexual experience front and center. When was the last time you saw a woman masturbating in an ad?”



May 04, 2021
Client :
Agency :
Vicki Maguire
Deputy ECD & Creative Partner :
Elliot Harris
Creative :
Rosie May Bird-Smith
Creative :
Amy-Rose Lynch
Account Team :
Ainhoa Wadsworth
Account Team :
Nick Boyle
Account Team :
Bella Macdonald
Account Team :
Camille LeSenne
Agency producer film :
Adrianne Godfrey
Agency producer film :
Alexis Myers
Agency producer print & digital :
Kat Loizou
Strategy Director :
Ally Chapman
Junior Strategist :
Milan zum Hebel
Media Agency :
Production Company :
Missing Link Films
Executive Producer :
Ben Link
Producer :
Ben Link
Director :
Alicia MacDonald
Adam Scarth
Editor :
Rachel Spann
Editor :
Work Editorial
Head of Design :
Lorenzo Fruzza
Senior Designer :
Nik House
Colorist :
Matt Turner
Post-Production :
Absolute Post
Tom Clapp
Soundtrack Composer :
Audio Networks
Soundtrack Composer :
Library Track
Audio Post-Production :
James Cobbold
Audio Post-Production :

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